4. 2022-2023, Teaching: Year 3

  • 4.2 Fall 2022

    February 20, A win

    I went into The Beautiful Store (a Korean Goodwill type chain) with the intention of buying matching plates but the $4 charge per each turned me away from the dinnerware and toward the clothes. I ended up bringing a purse, cardigan, and powder blue blazer to the cashier, a tall young woman with bleached hair styled like 1950s Barbie. While she was calling for her manager, I noticed a cut in the shape of a ring on her finger. A much older man appeared and the three of us stared at each other. “Is… there a problem?” I asked in Korean. The young woman let out an impressed gasp. “I’m…

  • 4.2 Fall 2022

    Hexes for Exes

    Do you remember Anthony? My travel school comrade, the outgoing male teacher, expert volleyball spiker, fighter of restaurant robots, English enthusiast? Yes? Well, he’s dead to me. To explain this saga, I need to line up some details. First, the characters: Anthony: male homeroom teacher at my travel school Jisoo: young female homeroom teacher at my travel school. She, her friend, and I all went out for burgers once. David: Anthony’s friend and male teacher at a different elementary school As of typing this, I have worked at my travel school every Wednesday for almost the past two years. I occasionally play volleyball with the other teachers and greet Jisoo…

  • 4.2 Fall 2022

    Twinning

    I sat on a bench outside of the Lotte Cinema when I heard someone call for me. Two fourth grade girls ran up to my side, huffing in their haste and excitement. I should have guessed they were fourth grade; my older students are too surly to chase me down me the street. One was a girl in purple with a new bobbed haircut. Once she caught her breath, she and her friend giggled too much to say anything. I made out that they were en route to the supermarket. “What will you buy?” I asked in Korean. More giggles. “Pizza? Cake? Steak?!” They giggled more and shook their heads.…

  • 4.2 Fall 2022,  Favorites

    December 3, Haunted House

    “I thought you were going to China.” Jiji, my friend’s wife, said. “Well, when was the last time I saw you? 2019? Yeah, COVID changed a lot of things.” I replied. The last time I had seen Jiji and Kyuri was Christmas 2019. I had made play-dough food items with the kids at the party from a horizontal position on the floor. Another nasty head cold had knocked me out. B.C. Before COVID, I thought. Back in 2017 I started teaching Chinese students online. It had continued as my longest running side job until China squeezed the throat of private English industry and forced nearly every company bankrupt. I didn’t…

  • 4.2 Fall 2022

    October 24, To smell or not to smell

    Before I even walked into the 4-1 classroom, a tidal wave of smell slapped me in the face. There was an overwhelming stench of fresh excrement lingering in the hall which only increased upon my entrance into the classroom. At first, I thought someone had very impressive flatulence, and then remembered that I have the most impressive flatulence which was somehow still rivaled by the brown cloud swirling in the classroom. Maybe one of the dusty old sewage pipes that doesn’t inspire any confidence finally burst in the ceiling. As I stood behind the desk still holding my plastic file of textbook and class materials, the students looked at me…

  • 4.2 Fall 2022

    October 17, The last straw

    I reached my limit with Helen’s homeroom class of 5-3 today. They didn’t recognize any of the warning signs that they were in dangerous territory, signs that every other class I’ve ever had has responded to immediately. I try to pause and then react when managing the classroom, and I don’t raise my voice, unless I’m trying to be heard over a speaking pairs game to signal the end. But 5-3 drove me to do something I haven’t done. I raised my voice at them. Class had been going on for 15 minutes, with incessant chatting from all corners of the classroom. Two boys switched seats back and forth as…

  • 4.2 Fall 2022

    October 16, Progress

    I returned to Seoul for a brief weekend getaway and was surprised how much more empathetically the city and I were able to meet each other. I met friends I haven’t seen since the Before Times and more importantly I paid tribute to a giant rubber duck. Like the most animal parts of ourselves, we flocked to the giant yellow monstrosity, ridiculing it but still ultimately showing up to gaze at its wonder. There was a kind dumpling man, a patient taxi driver that took us to a concert (whose accent I understood for once), London themed bagels because obviously that’s a London specialty, and an atmosphere of general ambitious,…

  • 4.2 Fall 2022

    October 7, F(r)ee

    I visited the local dermatologist for my next shot. A month prior I tried to pop something on my forehead I absolutely shouldn’t have and ended up with an angry red infection and then swollen scar tissue. The receptionist, a sweet former high school teacher with excellent English, led me to the now familiar office and translated while the doctor gently poked at my face. “The bump is small now and another injection won’t do much. I think it’ll disappear on its own,” she translated for him. Aww. Well I guess I’ll have to just wait. There was a short discussion between the two while I sat on the spinning…

  • 4.2 Fall 2022

    September 21, Skidaddle

    I finally tracked down Anthony after two weeks of attempts to give him his US gift. “Did you give this to everyone in the school?” He asked. “No, just a few,” I said, to his pleasure. We took a walk and were intercepted by teacher Kim who made a joke to Anthony about us walking together, after goofily sliding around the corner as if we couldn’t see him. We then went to look at the volleyball court to kill time and intercepted more teachers. I stood to the side pretending to be very interested in the lighting while the rest chatted at length in the hallway. After the other teachers…

  • 4.2 Fall 2022

    September 17, Debate snacks

    “The other girls are good at studying.” Seoyeon, one of my debate girls, told me as she and another girl, Gahyun, led me to the vending machine at the high school campus. It was my second attempt; the first yielded shadowy abandoned hallways with no snacks in sight. “They’re smart. They always make the best grades.” She added. Gahyun nodded sympathetically. But then who were the two sweet girls taking me in an adventure to the vending machine? I scoffed. “Grades aren’t everything.” I told them, knowing how little their other talents might be valued in the environment of Korean high school that emphasizes endless studying and academic competition at…