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A highlight reel of posts of my best writing, audience-picked pieces, or most intense experiences.

  • 4.2 Fall 2022,  Favorites

    December 3, Haunted House

    “I thought you were going to China.” Jiji, my friend’s wife, said. “Well, when was the last time I saw you? 2019? Yeah, COVID changed a lot of things.” I replied. The last time I had seen Jiji and Kyuri was Christmas 2019. I had made play-dough food items with the kids at the party from a horizontal position on the floor. Another nasty head cold had knocked me out. B.C. Before COVID, I thought. Back in 2017 I started teaching Chinese students online. It had continued as my longest running side job until China squeezed the throat of private English industry and forced nearly every company bankrupt. I didn’t…

  • Favorites,  Thoughts & Drabbles

    Psychodidae

    In a time before the Warrior was bequeathed with the heavy Knowing, a memorial was constructed to honor the folly of man. But Man was a fool, and his ill-conceit opened the gates to the immortal world far below. With no concern for his fellows, Man drilled deep into the evil of the underworld. No traps were laid, no sigils drawn, no offerings to honor the goddess Cheuksin. Lines intended to keep humanity safe were tread upon without care. And with such impetuous desecration, the seals were broken and terrible creatures ascended to the human plane. When the Warrior Knew, a battle unlike any in history unfolded. Demons rose from…

  • 3.1 Spring 2021,  Favorites

    July 17, Emergency Room 2.0

    My friend and I committed to another surfing lesson, and I privately committed to not flirting with anyone lest I be let down again. It looked like it wouldn’t be a problem this time. Our instructor of the day looked serious and responsible, as though he had taken a brief respite from being a military officer to teach surfing. It was hard to think of him too severely what with the comical white cast of intense sunscreen on his face. All the surf boys have gotten dark, as evidenced by their casual shirtlessness around the shop– a fact of which I’m extremely jealous. I wish I tanned as easily as…

  • Favorites,  Thoughts & Drabbles

    Above Ground

    Living as a visible minority in another country has taught me a lot about race, colonization, and globalization. Something else it’s shown me is the delicate underground web we may take for granted in the suburbs. Everything here is closer to the visible surface— income inequality, pollution, garbage, consumerism, animal cruelty, effects of war. Sometimes I pass someone old enough to be my grandmother carting a rickshaw full of cardboard. Social security was only recently established and elder poverty is a huge problem. I see grannies selling gum for a dollar outside department stores selling $500 padded jackets. Sometimes I see elderly without limbs, or I see a set of…

  • 2.2 Winter 2020-2021,  Favorites

    Neighbors

    I was on the roof reorganizing my laundry when a small voice said, “아주머니 누구냐?” Who is that lady*? I looked down two stories and saw a little boy bundled from head to toe. He peeked at me between his beanie and scarf and waved. “Who are you?” He shouted. “I’m your neighbor!” I waved back and asked him what his name was. “Kim Yoonu!” He said too quietly for a person on the top of a house to hear. “Kim Yoo?” “Kim Yoonu!” He said louder, still too shy to actually shout. “Kim Ooyu? Kim Yoonu? Wait, tell me again!” He stared at me in defeat while his parents…

  • Favorites,  Thoughts & Drabbles

    Aging

    South Korea went from being one of the poorest countries on Earth to the world’s tenth largest economy in less than 70 years. Korea has almost all the luxuries of American life, plus benefits my home country lacks: universal healthcare, cute school supplies, and extensive food delivery that UberEats only dreams of being. But seventy years is not a long time and even through through the Miracle on the Han River, age cannot be hidden. American culture seems almost ashamed of the elderly– put them in nursing homes until they are forgotten. I never really saw age until I got to Korea. In spite of the massive economic growth, sparkling…

  • Favorites,  Thoughts & Drabbles

    Touch

    On a long bus ride home, several people avoided sitting in the empty seat next to me, less because I smelled (probably), and more because sitting next to a foreigner can always be a little bit scary. Finally, the bus was too full to ignore me any longer and two very tall college boys got on. One gestured to his huskier friend to take the seat next to me but that friend insisted on standing. The first guy sat down in defeat. The seats were too small to avoid touching thighs even though he gripped the seat edge and sat rigidly straight on turns to avoid bumping shoulders. There was…

  • Favorites,  Thoughts & Drabbles

    Who’s that strange man?

    Whenever I see a mannequin in Korea, I experience the most cognitive dissonance. Or rather, just post-colonialism. Excluding small island nations, Korea is one of the most homogeneous countries in the world. The Koreans of today can be traced back to the Koreans from almost 5,000 years ago in nearly the same location on the peninsula. I know because I read it about it in a bus station museum somewhere in Gangwon province. And yet every time I see a mannequin, it’s white. Not only in color, but in very obvious Caucasian European features. It’s not only local brands or big-name shops. It’s also municipal branches like the police department…

  • 1.4 Spring 2020 (COVID Archives),  Favorites

    July 1, The Ugly Truth

    I attended my scheduled weekly tea time where I helped S get a Priceline refund and caught up on life. Life is full of surprises, though. I asked S about an anti-discrimination bill that is being deliberated by Korean lawmakers right now. A similar Equality Act was passed in the US last year (to my surprise, I learned: it was first proposed in 1974) but I don’t remember there being the mountain of opposition that exists against this bill in South Korea. In regards to America’s Equality Act, Wikipedia states: A poll conducted by Quinnipiac University in April 2019 found that 92% of American voters believed that employers should not…

  • 1.4 Spring 2020 (COVID Archives),  Favorites

    June 24, Tea Party & The American Dream

    Yesterday, S invited me to her classroom at 1:30pm to visit. C was asleep at her desk when I slid through the sliding door, unbrewed coffee in hand as an offering to S. We ended up chatting for two hours about all kinds of things: birth control, plans, family, school gossip. I don’t know if this is only S, her group of friends, or Korean women her age, but she is woefully unaware of birth control outside of condoms. She said, “I don’t think medicine is healthy for the woman’s body,” to which I had to respond, “well, oral pills for women actually decrease risk of cancer”. I told her…